Prof: "இன்னைகவது படி டா....."
U: "Dailyஉம் வீட்டுக்கு lateஆ போறோம்...இன்னைக்கு சீகரம் போகணும்"
Dad: "எப்போ பாத்தாலும் 11 மணி 12 மணிக்கு வரது.....சீகரம் வந்து பழகு .."
U: "இல்ல மச்சி...காசு இல்ல...நீங்க போயிட்டு வாங்க...ll catch up wit u next time"
Mom: "என்ன saturday movie and dinner ah......hmmmmmmmmm(big sigh)......"
I know i've exargerrated few instances happened in most of em's life.......atleast something closer to it wud ve happened.....U take a decision or plan to do something...not necessarily ur parents, ur relatives, frenz..anyone for tat matter...someone comes and tells u the same....wen v do it they think ly its coz of em v did it...... The ly thing tat makes me get frustrated....
I think now and then abt tis topic but either wud feel lazy or think such a waste of time....wats gonna happen.....but today a couple of things happened which made me go to the peak of frustration.....Felt like pampered to the core.....I've grown up.....I guess i ve.....completed a degree,working for almost a month now....and lot more mental growths too.....
I donno how many of u get wat i say......coz today was 1 of the most important of ma life......had plans abt it long ago.....wen they said u do tis...and finally ma mom came in and said do tis...its gud.....ya...ma mind knows they donno wat i think and say everythin for our wellbeing.....points taken....but i definitely feel pampered at many instances....i donno how many of u still feel somethin kinda these things....
Lot of small to bigger examples to quote......but the thing is ly a few came to ma mind.....i jus feel tat y dont they get tat v ve reached a time were v ve to b on our own...... Actually the thing i thought today was somethin frm ma heart so wen they said the same to do it.....wen i do it......it jus bcums as a task accomplished...not as the one i really felt,meant to do frm ma heart......
I need ur feedbacks means comments.....the things i expect to hear is like 'u have to understand em more,yes u r not grown up,ya i ve been thro somethings like tat..if possible some instances like coz i believe am not alone.......now i ve to think an alternative b4 anyone says tat too........
2 comments:
Sweet post :-)
Take it easy.
You are grown up Billu and listen to your heart and learn to go by your instincts.
I felt the same thing one day during the transition of teenhood to adulthood and I stopped talking to my relatives then on. Just started smiling when they say something...They will try to intimidate me when ever we meet and it was irritating to the core.
Take care...
So i finally meet someone who complains about being pampered.. :D i would rather call that being controlled rather than being pampered. thinking from their position (parent's) you'll see that they feel that they are not needed in their child's life anymore and when we take decisions of our own it kinda breaks their heart and hurts their ego. Only a few of the parents understand the concept of letting somebody stand on their own legs.
so just take a chill pill.. they'll come around in a while :)
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